Hello. I am a vet who served as an infantry man in the US Army and I have been diagnosed with PTSD. I used to drink alcohol to aid in sleep until I listened to your pod cast. The VA, while I think the heart is in the right place, has lost my trust but I know they are the experts with PTSD and have prescribed me Trazodone and Melatonin for sleep. I am one of the people who do not like taking meds as I do not want to be reliant on anything. I know your stance on Melatonin but are you aware of any issues with using Trazodone that the VA might not have mentioned to me?
There’s some interesting research on stress hormones in kids—released more/less depending on the TYPE of conflict or arguing they’re hear their parents/caregivers engaging in. And much marriage science on the physiological impact of negativity/contempt/criticism on a spouse’s stress hormones. Please summarize this research, and explain what kinds of relationships and interactions are most/least (literally) toxic.